Why should I care?

Something my "new Therapist" said is bugging us so much. I dont know what the question originally was but then she said, "But what would I think?" I told her "I don't care." WHo CARES what she thinks? There's only a few people we care what they think of what we do. Our old T, our nutritionist, a few people in our family. Thats IT. NOT her. She's a new person, we don't know her, she doesn't know us, we don't CARE what she thinks. If she doesn't like us, who cares. If she wants to dump us too, who cares.
Husband and another person say we should care what she thinks. Why?
We are too scared to trust someone else or let someone else in or ....even to scared to move too fast or turn our backs on someone or ANYTHING. Too scared to believe anything positive someone says... too afraid of everything right now. Everything hurts so much.
I need to talk to my old T right now SO BAD. I need to ask her, why should I care what this new T thinks? Why is all this happening?
i just miss my old t so much. Its been "only" a week but it feels like forever. My heart hurts so much.
Why should it matter what this new T thinks. why does anything matter anymore.

Posted by pilgrim | Filed under:

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it's a bit out of context so it's hard to tell but she didn't say "why do i care?".

to me that statement sounds more like she was trying to challenge your perception on things. not ask you to honour her opinions more than your own.

just my two cents.

You're entitled to think: "Who CARES what she thinks?"
"Why should it matter what this new T thinks"
It shouldn't matter.

thinking of you ... and what you think does matter.

thinking of you ... and what you think does matter.




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